The qualities of the ideal woman.

The things I want in a woman are simple to me. Thing is, it may not be so simple to come across a woman with these qualities. Her qualities and tendencies have to match and compliment mine so we can be well connected.

Patient… To me is the most important. Why? Well a woman with patience can deal with a lot of mess I can create. I'm a big kid so sometimes I can be immature and obnoxious. My sense of humor can easily be insensitive and can be portrayed as me being a complete asshole. At times, deep in the relationship I can be isolated and distant. I need my partner to realize there are times I need to think. Thing is it can last a few days. But it usually happens when I'm stressed or in a state of melancholy. Patience is also important because if a female and I will go far and god forbid something drastic happens where it takes time to recover from. Whether losing a job or getting injured. I would need her to be there and be patient. This brings me to the next thing.

Supportive… A woman who is supportive as well as patient is worth marrying. The two traits go hand and hand. I would like a woman that will stand by me and support my decisions. At the same time I don't want a yes woman. She has to tell me how she feel about my decisions but also understand why I want to make that decision. Nothing more I can say about this topic.

Understanding… I don't expect any woman to fully understand me. Therefore, she has to understand that I can't fully understand her. Once both parties realize that, it's a beautiful thing. The key to me with being understanding is to try. Even if I don't ever understand you I'll never stop trying. So I expect my girl to do the same. Being understanding also relates to being supportive and patient. So I'm pretty much repeating myself.

Trusting… Not the usual trust in a relationship. That's given for anybody the whole faithful thing. But the trust I'm talking about is the trust for my partner to tell me what's on her mind. Not everything. But mostly things that have to do with me and her. Especially issues that effect how you are towards me. Some of which they may speak to their girlfriends about. When my partner's girlfriend knows more about how she feels about me more then I know, then it's a severe problem to me. This leads me to another topic.

Communicates… A girl who is not afraid to tell me what's on her mind and tell me what I do to urk her. There might be disagreement but at least you gave me a chance to understand you. No guessing what's wrong and when I do figure it out it's too late. Communication is the best thing to do it helps me to understand you and improve are relationship tremendously.

Affection… Physical and verbal affection is important to me. I know I'm a big sap. But it is. Blame mom dukes for that. Affection is my M.O. I kiss, hug, cuddle, spoon and all that mushy soap opera shit. From time to time I can be a bit mushy but I'm working on that. But my partner has to be affectionate. Mainly to let me know she cares. If she's not into the cuddling all the time she has to be affectionate another way. Tell me things here and there let me know. It comforts me. I'm having a horrible day and I go to my girl I expect a hug or a simple touch, something to comfort me. This is a reassurance issue for me but that is what I desire from a Female.

Intellect.. I've dealt with idiots in my day. My first girlfriend was pretty, she was not stupid just wasn't interested in much she was kind of one dimensional. A woman with many interests and hobbies are a beautiful thing. Someone I can debate with or have a crazy discussion with. Someone who can teach me something new and have me interested in things I never even thought about. Whether, it's a book, topic, food, art or a hobby. It's very important to be stimulated mentally. And she also doesn't mind learning from me. Even if it's something dorky of mine, her interest is important to me.

That's pretty much it. That's a lot to ask for but that's pretty much the jist of it all.